Not everything you come across in life belongs to you! You get what you deserve and others get what they deserve. You give it a try and feel embarrassed when you don’t get the things you tried for. However, be kind and gentle to yourself. Do not hurt the nature inside you for this reason. Grow up in your ideas. Face yourself as an individual with failures and think of the ways to come out now.
Nothing is final until death. You can always try again, love again, work again and live again. Just leave the things, which do not come to you. You don’t have to show this to anyone on how much you earned through the practices, you followed. Even if you faced a defeat, you have to stand again. Fight with your negative thoughts and overcome them. There is nothing which was yours and there is nothing which you will take from here, so learn to leave the things that bother you, even love. Keep loving within and continue. Whatever you deserve out of your true feelings, you will surely enjoy. Life is too short for regrets and pain. Remember-You can always restart!
It takes nothing to dream bigger. We are imaginative in nature. So, If we can allow negativity to take over our minds, then why not positive thoughts compel us to enjoy?
What are bigger dreams going to do for us?
The answer is very simple- Dreams bring with them responsibility. Eg- If I had a dream of owning a Cadillac and I even enjoyed driving it with my family, in my dream only. Then, I have to get it done for real pleasure. I have to grow my patience and stamina to cover the distance, required to achieve the goal, set in the dream. So, its a responsibility in itself to carry a dream forward towards reality.
Work hard, stop complaining and rise above the excuses-you give to others and yourself, in order to reform the damaged, in order to set the things right and in order to live life to the fullest.
Everyday, remind yourself that you have to be better than you were yesterday. Life is for once, so do whatever you can do best. Give whatever you have to make yourself worth a Human Being!
There could be many reasons behind one losing himself to the present situations prevailing in the Society. We loose ourselves-means we start under-estimating oneself, which is actually an outcome of the ongoing competition amongst us, without understanding our individual importance.
Believe me, we are not here to compete, we are here to complete ourselves, as Human beings with knowledge that can satisfy ourselves. We are at the single point, in which only we could fit in. Why do we feel the inferiority complex to anyone? Why there is competition? Who is creating this? Answer is we and our expectations.
Sometimes, if situations compel us and confuse us, we must decide at the earliest and move towards nature to find the solutions for ourselves. As Nature has all the answers. Nature will help us understand the beauty inside us. Nature will help us find the ‘Best of us’ always.
Today is the best day, when Love needs an understanding. Why are we so confused?
We actually don’t know whom we love and why?
The easiest thing to understand in Love is-Connections.
Why are we connected to someone is the first reason for our unconditional love.
Just like in case of our parents-They gave us the birth, we are here because of them, so we are connected directly to them and we love them unconditionally. Similarly, we love our children and vice-versa.
Then there is indirect love. We help someone, make a manual connection and get love from them or vice-versa.
Someone understands us and we feel his/her loveliness and fall in love and the most amazing form of love-To fall in love with a person, we don’t know, we don’t understand and still wants to give him/her everything. That is the true unconventionality that exist behind the word-Love. You don’t need a reason to love. You need to love for love. The only way to love is-To love unconditionally. We sometimes fell short before our own commitments. We start giving up in relationships. Remember-It is a task, everyone has to perform and the one who does it with his everything involved, wins more than he loses.
Where we commit a mistake?
We start expecting more than we give. We start to teach more than we have learned. We start moving away more than we came closer. We start to end the things, we never started. This is mere understanding the laws of Nature to their best. If you don’t follow a give and take relation, you create a mess there. Your in-laws, your relatives, your colleagues, your neighbors- Trust me, most of these people are connected to you unknowingly, so maintain most of the things in an unknowingly way like I don’t know how to behave, if my father-in-law hates me. So, what I need to do?-I should adjust not run away. As I will adjust even when I run away. It is not how they behave or react, it is how we absorb and remain patient. We let it go. We let it change with time and we see miracles in the form of these Human Beings only. So, it is always the way you love, not the way you expect.
It is a very important thing in life. Your tongue is more of a medicine than a weapon, but we use it as a weapon often. Every word you speak creates an effect on the mind of the person listening to you.
Now, How to speak?
-Speak with a sense
-Speak after calculations
-Speak your good intentions
-Speak with care
What to speak?
-Your influential thoughts
-Helpful words to soothe the pain
-Words to create a joyful atmosphere
-Words to remove confusion
-Words to show a direction to someone